I do not like inclusion
At school I was a little different from the rest, my clothes were anders.Waar I was thinking about how I played, it was just different. It did not bother me really. I heard not anywhere near, but I do not hear anything at.
In high school drew himself to some more off. And even though I hung out with all the kids in my class, I did not feel like I belonged. I was a bit weird and that made me. I did not want to be different, elvine not be found strange, I was 'with it'.
After high school it was less. I wanted people around me who understood me, who shared my interests. People who were nice to me who I was. No emphasis on my "otherness", we were all different. Reassuring I liked that.
A little later I went to reap the fruits of my queerness. I could use to do my job and there was my weird-have 'suddenly' interesting '. (Which I think means "strange, but maybe I can use it in my example") Others call it 'refreshing', 'an inspiration', etc.
That small group of people that I had gathered around me remained small. And I must say that I also prefer to keep it there. I do not feel like me 'different' feel than the rest. In these people, I feel knew me at ease. But really 'in and with the community' is not.
Then it could not be otherwise than that I would be there. elvine Again confronted Today was such a moment. elvine A rough cross-section elvine of a piece of society: the playground of the school. Schoolyard elvine Mother have seemed like an ultimate form of inclusion. All backgrounds, all professions, different restrictions: everyone.
And what I feel miserable! In the brief conversations with other parents, I notice again how "weird" people actually find me. My words are misunderstood, I'm not a flowery dress as most school mothers. And like a mother to me, the following question: "Gosh, elvine what a nice pants have your daughter. Where did you get that "I say:" Oh, no idea, I never buy clothes, pants in a bag of clothes that I have received "from elvine someone I do not even find her frown also pressing words. .
A regular primary school. elvine Yes, it is perhaps the epitome of inclusion, but I also doubt. I feel that the real inclusion is anything else. Not in the 'in and with the community. " I get the feeling that the inclusion is not in society, not society, but deeply elvine rooted in the people. In me also. Or actually, not really in me.
I am afraid of floral dresses in the schoolyard, afraid I do not know when, because I do not have one. But the truth is that I do not want a flowery dress. If so many people wearing the same I do not want to belong to. And that is seriously wrong with my inclusion.
The truth is that I have the people elvine about whom I write as little as they understand me. Or maybe even less. I find talk about the weather stupid. I really elvine want to talk to anyone at the school because I think everyone just talking about the weather.
The belonging, the wanting to belong or not has nothing to do with inclusion. Belong Inclusion in the schoolyard would think that I'm open on the school for contact elvine with each parent. I would go with genuine interest to listen to what that person has to say and I would do my best to understand that person. I might have an opinion, but never form an opinion.
What I want to say, each individual will be open to any other individual to get in touch, open free of judgments. Then will you achieve inclusion. Or rather, it is the word inclusion unnecessary. A utopia where I want to grow. Best to
I love them that flowery dresses, especially those of King Louie. But I think also great you and am glad to be able to hear it. In that small group And yes, there is a lot of advantage. elvine In the world of 'woolen socks' which I had been wrong long often have strong opinions about men in suits. That would have no depth. I did find that too bizarre for words, people who think they are so open to others and thus really only for their own group. I'm not saying I never judge because we can all learn, as long as we sincerely ourselves at least find something that we can and should learn.
Mooin word anyway 'inclusion'. Go once again made use of in the form of 'Include'. Is not the opposite? Anyway, now having read this (thank Geert) I hope to believe that real innovation is a lot Include. Loosely translated 'just listen to any interested regarding an innovation. Then do not miss that one requirement ensures that an innovation is not complete. Hmmmm sorry
At school I was a little different from the rest, my clothes were anders.Waar I was thinking about how I played, it was just different. It did not bother me really. I heard not anywhere near, but I do not hear anything at.
In high school drew himself to some more off. And even though I hung out with all the kids in my class, I did not feel like I belonged. I was a bit weird and that made me. I did not want to be different, elvine not be found strange, I was 'with it'.
After high school it was less. I wanted people around me who understood me, who shared my interests. People who were nice to me who I was. No emphasis on my "otherness", we were all different. Reassuring I liked that.
A little later I went to reap the fruits of my queerness. I could use to do my job and there was my weird-have 'suddenly' interesting '. (Which I think means "strange, but maybe I can use it in my example") Others call it 'refreshing', 'an inspiration', etc.
That small group of people that I had gathered around me remained small. And I must say that I also prefer to keep it there. I do not feel like me 'different' feel than the rest. In these people, I feel knew me at ease. But really 'in and with the community' is not.
Then it could not be otherwise than that I would be there. elvine Again confronted Today was such a moment. elvine A rough cross-section elvine of a piece of society: the playground of the school. Schoolyard elvine Mother have seemed like an ultimate form of inclusion. All backgrounds, all professions, different restrictions: everyone.
And what I feel miserable! In the brief conversations with other parents, I notice again how "weird" people actually find me. My words are misunderstood, I'm not a flowery dress as most school mothers. And like a mother to me, the following question: "Gosh, elvine what a nice pants have your daughter. Where did you get that "I say:" Oh, no idea, I never buy clothes, pants in a bag of clothes that I have received "from elvine someone I do not even find her frown also pressing words. .
A regular primary school. elvine Yes, it is perhaps the epitome of inclusion, but I also doubt. I feel that the real inclusion is anything else. Not in the 'in and with the community. " I get the feeling that the inclusion is not in society, not society, but deeply elvine rooted in the people. In me also. Or actually, not really in me.
I am afraid of floral dresses in the schoolyard, afraid I do not know when, because I do not have one. But the truth is that I do not want a flowery dress. If so many people wearing the same I do not want to belong to. And that is seriously wrong with my inclusion.
The truth is that I have the people elvine about whom I write as little as they understand me. Or maybe even less. I find talk about the weather stupid. I really elvine want to talk to anyone at the school because I think everyone just talking about the weather.
The belonging, the wanting to belong or not has nothing to do with inclusion. Belong Inclusion in the schoolyard would think that I'm open on the school for contact elvine with each parent. I would go with genuine interest to listen to what that person has to say and I would do my best to understand that person. I might have an opinion, but never form an opinion.
What I want to say, each individual will be open to any other individual to get in touch, open free of judgments. Then will you achieve inclusion. Or rather, it is the word inclusion unnecessary. A utopia where I want to grow. Best to
I love them that flowery dresses, especially those of King Louie. But I think also great you and am glad to be able to hear it. In that small group And yes, there is a lot of advantage. elvine In the world of 'woolen socks' which I had been wrong long often have strong opinions about men in suits. That would have no depth. I did find that too bizarre for words, people who think they are so open to others and thus really only for their own group. I'm not saying I never judge because we can all learn, as long as we sincerely ourselves at least find something that we can and should learn.
Mooin word anyway 'inclusion'. Go once again made use of in the form of 'Include'. Is not the opposite? Anyway, now having read this (thank Geert) I hope to believe that real innovation is a lot Include. Loosely translated 'just listen to any interested regarding an innovation. Then do not miss that one requirement ensures that an innovation is not complete. Hmmmm sorry
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